Workshop Information
The Lola and Ber What If workshops help with:
- Improving communication
- Breaking down barriers
- Releasing shame and insecurity
- Articulating physical and emotional needs
- Accepting your partner as they are
- Navigating infidelity and betrayal
- Conquering jealousy
- Overcoming relationship trauma
- Exploring deep desires and fantasies
- Sacred sexuality
- Understanding alternative relationship structures
- Creative conflict resolution
Pricing
Pricing (food, all activities and intake consultation included). These charges allow us to cover our costs, including third-party bodyworkers and healers, catering, lodging, cleaning, activities, etc. We are committed to inclusiveness and affordability. If you want to attend, but it is financially difficult for you, please contact us and we will try to make it work.
MANHATTAN MINI RETREATS (1 day)
Couples – $825; Individuals – $475
CATSKILLS AND NIAGARA WEEKEND RETREATS (2 nights/3 days)
Couples – $1,650 per couple with on-site lodging included, or $1,000 per couple with lodging not included
Individuals – $900 with on-site lodging included, or $500 with lodging not included.
PARK CITY, UT AND CARTAGENA, COLOMBIA LONG WEEKEND RETREATS (4 nights/5 days)
Couples – $3,600 per couple with on-site lodging included, or $2,000 per couple with lodging not included
Individuals – $2,000 with on-site lodging included, or $1,200 with lodging not included.
INDIVIDUAL CONSULTATIONS
$200 per 60-minute session via Zoom; $350 per 90-minute session in-person. Package discounts available.
(PLEASE NOTE: The What If Weekend Retreats are each limited to 5 couples and 4 singles [Cartagena, Colombia retreat limited to 8 couples and 6 singles] . The What If Mini-Retreats are limited to 3 couples and 2 singles. Prior to acceptance, prospective participants will do an intake consultation with Lola and Ber. Acceptance will be based on authentic intention for growth, respect for others and a commitment to a safe, exploratory environment. Childcare may be available; talk to us about it.)
Unless otherwise indicated, weekend retreats begin Friday @ 7PM and end Sunday @ 3PM. For the mini-retreats, please refer to individual listings for start and end times.
Online Consultation
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"What If" Schedule Spring - Early Summer 2025
📍 March
🗽 Sat, Mar 29 – What If You Went For It (One-Day Manhattan Retreat)
📍 April
🏞️ Fri-Sun, Apr 4-6 – What If You Could Start Again (Catskills Weekend Retreat) Thu-Mon, Apr 17-21 – What If Takes Medellín
🏝️ Wed-Sun, Apr 23-27 – What If Takes Cartagena & Islas del Rosario
📍 May
🎂💃 Sat-Sun, May 3-4 – My Birthday Bash! (Cartagena, Colombia)
🎬 Wed-Mon, May 14-19 – What If x Cannes Film Festival
🏎️ Wed-Mon, May 21-26 – What If x Monaco Grand Prix
📍 July
Sat-Sun, Jul 5-6 – FreeNM Fest (Co-created 24-hour gathering with music, workshops, play & camping in the Catskills)
🗽 Sat, Jul 13 – What If You Let Go (One-Day Manhattan Retreat)
